• Essential ingredients for making new friends in your 20s and 30s (while avoiding being awkward ASF)

    1. Be LESS interesting and MORE interested By this I mean to not always talk about yourself. Trust me, its a bad habit that even I had to learn to overcome. Often times people make the mistake of trying to impress the new potential bestie by sharing their major accomplishment or talking about their best features.  But being more likable is more about them then it is about you. Everyone LOVES talking about themselves. Show your interest in someone by listening to their stories and their perspectives and asking questions. One study showed that just by asking a person more questions about themselves gives the effect of being more likable. Finding similarities…